tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3099670252831293133.post4357634458287067141..comments2023-09-30T01:56:28.600-07:00Comments on Sassy Molassy: One Year of MarriageLauren @ Sassy Molassyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09386991766331711286noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3099670252831293133.post-8269156907952721142014-09-13T11:35:56.163-07:002014-09-13T11:35:56.163-07:00I am glad that the first year of marriage was a go...I am glad that the first year of marriage was a good one for you even if it was crazy busy and a bit of a blur. I think if anything it shows us that life is never going to slow down so we need to find ways to enjoy the hear and now. <br /><br />I sometimes think that Phil and I are too independent because we do tend to think in terms of "I" more than "we" so it's good to hear that others struggle with this as well. Lisa from Lisa's Yarnshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05335500882510597919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3099670252831293133.post-68081392095961505642014-09-12T13:10:16.952-07:002014-09-12T13:10:16.952-07:00Happy belated Anniversary! The first year of marri...Happy belated Anniversary! The first year of marriage was actually really really hard for me. I think part of it was I was the first of my friends to get married and two of my closest friends were planning their own weddings during my first year of marriage. So I never felt like I had anyone to confide in and say "marriage is really hard" to. Now that both of them are married, we've had many conversations about how much work marriage can be. I still remember the first time my one friend said to me "marriage is actually really hard" over lunch and I was like yes, yes it is! I felt like a weight was off my shoulders. <br /><br />Anyways, marriage has only gone up from there for me and so far, a couple of months into my third year of marriage, it's the best and most amazing one yet. Thinking as "us" rather than "I" can be hard though. Even though Eric and I have been together a very very long time I still tend to make plans without double checking with him first. I am getting better about it though and our communication has vastly improved the last year or so. I do know that no matter how hard it is to make marriage work, it's work that is completely 100% worth it. It's an amazing feeling to have a partner in crime and someone by your side you know you can depend on through anything! Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05185652640389232120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3099670252831293133.post-33047805564721628942014-09-12T10:36:35.977-07:002014-09-12T10:36:35.977-07:00Love this! I'm getting married in a week. :)Love this! I'm getting married in a week. :)Lisahttp://www.110pounds.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3099670252831293133.post-70836532433056176402014-09-12T08:40:15.904-07:002014-09-12T08:40:15.904-07:00Happy belated wedding anniversary! Our 4th wedding...Happy belated wedding anniversary! Our 4th wedding anniversary passed in August (still crazy it has been four years since our wedding!) and I didn't feel much changed after we got married. I'm so glad we took the time to develop our marriage before having kids though (I know not everyone can do that). It's made us appreciate each other and grow together before the craziness of a kid!Leighhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18208084906252104079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3099670252831293133.post-47891587068995612982014-09-12T08:21:00.820-07:002014-09-12T08:21:00.820-07:00I love this post. I feel the same way in that I th...I love this post. I feel the same way in that I thought our first year of marriage would be an extension of our dating relationship. But I think we have a deeper level of commitment to each other that wasn't there before. <br /><br />Happy one year!Lindseyhttp://lindseykayovens.comnoreply@blogger.com